Teenagers these days are very anxious of almost everything.They want to know that.They want to experience that.As a teenager myself,I know these things.Having crushes,undergoing puberty,and sometimes even having admirers.Well , among the rising numbers of teenage pregnancy or unwanted pregnancy,we should all know our limitations.Well, here are some tips in how you could tell whether to say yes or no.
1.) Consent of parents.Well,most of the time they say no.And sometimes you'll just have to deal with it.But I tell you if he loves you,he'll convince your parents and will not stop.
2.)Know your limitations.Not just because you're together,doesn't mean that you'll do things that only married people can.Set barriers.No kissing.No sex ( sorry for the term ) .Hugs and holding hands will do ( Of course not in public or PDA ) .
3.) If he really is serious and if he is really a man, he'll talk to your parents and convince them and to get their consent.Now that's what you call manly. Agree?
4.) Never disobey your parents.If it's really meant to be.IT WILL BE.
5.) Time.Time to get to know each other and know your similarities and differences.Likes and dislikes with each other.
6.) Friendship. You could stay as "best friends" or in flirty language "special friends ". This would be the perfect relationship especially for our age. Let the two of you be friends until the right time. Being best friends for 5-6 years or more is more than enough for you to know each other better.This would make the two of you ready to go into a relationship.
Being in a relationship is a serious thing,playing games and beating around the bush won't help the both of you.But never forget to obey your parents.Cause they know what's best for you. :)
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